The only constant in life is that we are constantly changing, evolving and growing.

I see so many people get stuck at the first step of evolution. They try to add to their already complete self. It’s like trying to grow a rose bush from the trunk of an oak tree. Unfortunately, it’s not possible.

Thankfully, us women are complex, multi-dimensional creatures. We aren’t as simple as oak trees. And we don’t want to be as one dimensional as a rose bush. We are all diverse flower gardens. With trees, bushes & flowers alike.

And yet as we come of age, our garden becomes full. We flower into the multi-dimensional woman we naturally can be. But not all of these trees, bushes nor flowers are things we want to keep in our garden as we age.

But living in this capitalist world we live in, we think we should just add more to our gardens. When really, what we need to do is remove the junk. The stuff that no longer resonates. The shrubs we have outgrown need to go!

Because once there is space, re-growth becomes easy. It’s hard to grow sun-loving daffodils in the shade of an old oak tree. Get rid of the tree, and the daffodils will thrive.

I began my unbecoming journey in 2012. Ten years later, I arrived. And after 10 years of pruning my garden back to the flowers I really wanted… I began planting seeds of my choosing.

The Serendipitous Way includes the lessons I learned along the way. It will guide you to pruning back your garden with elegance and ease. Take what you want, and leave what you don’t. Each garden requires different maintenance and care. But the one thing I can promise is universally true, is that pruning back your garden creates more energy, ease & fulfillment in your life. You will find yourself feeling like you’ve arrived — like you are continually stopping to smell the roses.